Raw Vegan wrote:
Dick Gawker A few weeks ago I met a nice guy at the pool. He's a bit of a novice swimmer and asked where I found my workouts. I exchanged numbers with him and texted him a few base workouts.
I meet him there the next day, and dude is just staring at my junk the entire time we're talking. He's not even trying to hide it or look in another direction. I'm pretty fit and do have abs, but it really weirded me out. My gf made a joke that she would stare too. I told her "Yeah but you're a chick. It's totally different when a guy stares".
The next day I see him again and immediately he's fixated on my lower region. I'm about halfway tempted to crack on him with a comment like "Take a picture it will last longer". Lmao.
Interestingly enough, I did have a lady also look directly at my junk at the same pool a few months back. She did look away as she caught herself doing it. Funny thing is that never happened at my old pool over a period of years, or I didn't notice. Full disclosure, I wear a race cut Speedo, but still I'm kind of taken aback by the staring. Maybe it's time to get some jammers?
Maybe taking the sock out may help?
My take is:
Wear it with pride as long as you can.
If your ‘life preserver’ creeps over the upper edge (chinch cord), you’re done.
Jammers seen in training are always a sign of surrender, and they leave nasty tan lines.
If someone complains, I‘d opt for a mesh-dragsuit.
I am still under covid restrictions, and there is that guy who shows up with regular sandals, trunks and Hawaii shirt standing in the shallow end and just swinging his arms and legs (actually it’s more like a wiggle).
I swear these are not pool shoes and the rest is also what he wears to and from the pool.
I talked to staff and they said there’s little that they can do as he abides to covid regulations (no deck changes and decency).
Gross.
I always book a lane that starts at the deep end now.
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windschatten: Apr 21, 21 10:10