charlie1980 wrote:
I’m actually contemplating where my alcohol use goes from here. I don’t want to be a hardcore no all the time, but what is the right frequency?
I’ve been feeling better since Jan 1st, better sleep, weight loss, more patient around the kids, but don’t see myself fully quitting. Should I do only special occasions like Valentine’s Day, birthdays etc? Only fancy dinners which happen only 2-3/year? What’s a special occasion anyways? Only during vacations? If I start with Super Bowl on Sunday, how long/what is the risk of going back to my old habits of almost every day? How hard will it be to limit myself to 2-3 drinks per sitting, twice a week?
This is the identical scenario I'm facing. This dry January has been the longest I've gone since I started drinking ~10yrs ago. I was in a pretty steady habit of 2-3 beers a night, sometimes more, and definitely more on weekends.
Having gone 27 days now, I only see positives. I'm dropping weight. I'm smashing workouts. I'm sleeping better. I'm more productive around the house. I don't start stupid arguments with my SO. I wake up happy and without a hangover. It truly makes me reconsider if I will go back and to what extent.
I certainly don't want to fall back into multiple drinks a night just because. But being able to grab the occasional drink with friends at the brewery or after a long workout would be nice. I guess everything is TBD, but my life has genuinely been better without booze. So now at least I can come reference this post in the future as a reminder haha