h2ofun wrote:
Richard Blaine wrote: "OK.
What happened is that you quote one of your posts in which Frank replies to one of Greg's posts, and then you say "Why do you delete your posts Greg?" without any indication that the post you're missing is not the one Frank is replying to. I then point out that the post Frank is replying to is still there. You then still don't tell us that that wasn't the post you're talking about, you just say "no, no, no, he really deleted it". I then ask you WTF. If you consider that being attacked I have no idea how you get through your day without feeling violated every time you communicate with another human being.
I feel we can summarize this whole train wreck of a thread thusly:
How the fuck are we supposed to know what you're talking about when you don't properly explain what you're talking about?
And don't give me the old "but I am explaining and you just don't want to understand". Because you're old enough to know that if everybody except you agrees on a statement ("Dave has a poor written communication style") it's most likely that everybody else is right and that you are the outlier.
Fuck, I feel like I'm taking to my teenage son.”
I am the first to agree that Dave is not the best communicator. I have had trouble understanding some things in our personal back and forth messages. I think the problem is he tends to leave stuff out that the rest of us need to fully understand what he is trying to say. Or, he forgets he has said one thing and doesn’t tell anyone when his understanding has changed. I assume this is because he thinks that something is obvious to him so it must be obvious to you. Sometimes (like this thread) it is because he is informing you what he is doing when he doesn’t fully understand what is being done so he is unable to clearly answer questions. He isn’t the only person in the world with this problem. At least Dave isn’t intimidated by your criticisms and put downs, must be frustrating.
That having been said, the other problem is you guys jump on him as if he knows nothing on pretty much every comment he makes, trying to make him irrelevant to any conversation or, even, get him booted from the site because you are tired of him. Such attempts only make you guys look petty. Yet, you keep coming back and back and back. I guess it would be easy to ignore him except for one thing. His race results are better than almost everyone here. He must be doing something right yet to listen to you people he isn’t doing anything right.
Frank Day
Alrighty then. Down the rabbit hole we go again.
I *always* attempt to make the first post in any exchange "polite". I may be sarcastic, but in that case I will make sure to indicate that it is, in fact, intended as sarcasm.
In this case there wasn't even any sarcasm. I thought I was doing Dave a favour by pointing out the post he thought was deleted. No intention to "jump down his throat". No, just, "Dude, there's the post. You probably got confused by your unconventional quoting style". It's Dave who then comes back with either an ad hominem or playing the victim, or both. And that's when it's on.
And I couldn't give less fucks about his race results than I do. He lives in California, I live in Ontario. I race in my bubble, he races in his.
Citizen of the world, former drunkard. Resident Traumatic Brain Injury advocate.