jt10000 wrote:
Grant.Reuter wrote:
jt10000 wrote:
Two that I've seen in the last few weeks: "popping cherry" and "crack pipe." Please think about original meaning of these words. I hope you'll avoid using them here.
How in the world is Crack Pipe offensive? Not to mention it’s a term that’s been used for at least the last 12 years on here and probabaly before I started here. It's joking about something that's associated with inner city poverty, especially among black people, the war on drugs, and addiction - very serious issues. Crack pipes are horrible things related to a lot of misery. If you've been touched by those things, and think the phrase is funny or neutral, ignore me and joke about them if you think it's appropriate. But if those are things that you would never think would affect you, then I suggest you should avoid them. Using words that are serious about "others" is something I try to avoid myself. Ai_1 wrote:
What induced you to start this thread? I'm curious.
Mostly because you haven't given any real argument as to why these terms would be considered offensive, but also because attitudes and tone are universally more offensive than individual words. To ask us to refrain from specific, arguably, offensive words without explanation, context or discussion is a bit silly.
"Crack pipe" has always disturbed me here for the reasons above. I meant to post this kind of message the last time someone used it in the hope that people would think about it a bit more, but didn't want to be seeming to attack an individual. Then I saw the other phrase today, which is clearly vulgar in most uses, and thought to bring these up generally.Well, I think that explanation should have been in the first post, but better late than never.
Personally there are a bunch of terms I dislike that are commonly used here and elsewhere. I'd say "butt hurt" is the worst I can think of off-hand. It's just unpleasant, unnecessary and seems to be used specifically to offend. I wouldn't bother asking people not to say it though. It's massively unlikely anyone will care what I think on the subject and besides, anyone using that phrase will continue thinking the same way regardless of whether they use the same words - so what's the point.
In the case of "crack-pipe", while I get your objection, I'm not sure it's justified. The name is a reference to the shape and I don't think it's meant as a dig, or joke at anyone's expense. I don't like the reference and wouldn't be inclined to call it that. It's a 90 degree valve adaptor. But I think I don't think it's a real problem worth complaining about. I'm not going to worry about it.
As for "popping cherry", I'm not american, I've heard the term, it's kinda silly, but if it has some offensive connotation I'm not aware of it. Is it not just a playful term for losing one's virginity? Is there more to it than that? Again, I'd just say it was my first IM or my first time riding a tri bike or whatever, but if someone wanted to say they popped their IM cherry, so what? Am I missing something?