kathy_caribe wrote:
AND, as a parent who dragged a 3mo, 3yo and 5yo out on an RV-cross country trip, I can guarantee you it is quite possible they are having the times of their lives (as well as hating certain moments, but as parents, that is what we do. we give them good and bad.). AND as a parent who dragged a 2yo, 4yo, 7yo and 9yo on an international (USA and Mexico) 4-year cross country trip, I can again assure you I have some BTDT WRT kids and very involved RV trips.
Kathy,
I think that you are assisting with the opposing viewpoint. When you went on your vacations/trip were you physically exerting yourself for 12-18 hours per day and then booking it to another location
every day? Or were you actually interacting with your children, and even planning a couple stops just for them (maybe even more than a couple)? Given the data which we all have access to, it would indicate that he spent quite some time as an absentee parent. I really dont think that he just up and started doing this type of exercise? This kind of thing takes many many hours, which when matched up to a job results in a parent who is just not around for parenting. In my mind, this is not very cool. I wrote earlier that if he wanted to promote anything to do with children (i.e. obesity, cancer, whatever), then why not do a trip around his own kids? It looks like he has a beautiful family, and should not be absent as a dad.
So what it boils down to from my very cynical point of view is that this fellow wants to do something totally cool, wants someone else to pay for it, and wants to prop up some other explanation to help him get others to pay for it. I am fine with him doing that, after all it is a free country that we live in here in the USA. I just dont think that he deserves the accolades which he seemed to be garnering.
It is not being a hater as you state in several of your posts (as did a couple others), it is just interpreting the data which is available and formulating an opinion based on that data. It is not hate at all.
Regarding the jealous accusations...well, yes, I am; and I think that everyone reading is as well. Otherwise, we would not be reading this forum. Heck, I would love to be out there every day trying to do something crazy like that; but I would not ask everyone else to pay for it and I would not subject my family to chasing my own self serving dream.
I really do hope that he is successful in his attempt to do this; but that does not mean that I agree with his methodology.
Stephen J
I believe my local reality has been violated.
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