devashish_paul wrote:
Culley22 wrote:
devashish_paul wrote:
I agree no one is responsible for a person's emotions other than themselves. But it is really easy for some people to engage in exclusionary behaviour online (which keeps others away) and justify it by pointing to all those who stay who "get" their exclusionary behaviour. Its self fulfilling because you don't see all the poeple that walk away from Eric (and you) trending to towards being rude online (I am friends with Eric in real life, I don't really love how he behaves online, as its quit different from how he behaves in person...its almost like I am friends with the real life Eric and could do without the online Eric).
In any case, its a free world and you guys can engage in non adult behaviour around here if you want to and I can choose to call you guys out.
So you agree your reaction is your responsibility. So how you react, is solely up to you. Good, got that cleared up.
Also, at no point was this âexclusionaryâ. No one omitted anyone on basis of their native tongue, nationality,....ANYTHING. Not understanding something doesnât make it âexclusionary â. People often joke...and this particular âjokingâ wasnât malicious in ANY way. So, if you have hurt feelings, okay. But no one âhurt your feelingsâ you decided to be hurt. Thatâs on you.
I am not hurt at all. I am pointing out that unless you explicity state something is a joke online it may or may not come across as a joke to others. I know Eric is not THAT stupid that he does not know who bombed Pearl Harbour so its obviously a joke to ME. But clearly at least one person thought that Eric was another clueless American (joke in the the rest of the world that Americans don't know the difference between anyone outside their borders) not knowing his own history.
Seriously jokes don't work online unless you explicitly say its one. People from all over the world with different context. I believe Ai mentioned that.
Holy hell. You're actually serious? One person didn't get the joke, and you've extrapolated 8 million things from that that are simply not there.
You're policing jokes on a forum. Seriously.