mgalluzz wrote:
eganski wrote:
This is a victimless crime, don't beat yourself up too much for it. It's not like you pushed your sister down the stairs and blamed it on the dog.
Amen. Although I do have to put it out there that I am friends with him, he's taking a lot of heat on here from people that were not at all affected by his decision. Not only is he putting up with it, hes accepting it and allowing people to ask him questions/criticize it even more.
If this happened in another race and he got a qualifying spot because of it, then its a different story. Everyone can be assured that is not the case.
The only person he let down is himself, and I'm sure nobody is going to be harder on him than he is. If people honestly have a legitimate bone to pick with him and don't like what's happening now that he is coming clean, I think they need to reevaluate themselves and why they are involved with this sport. If you truly do this sport for yourself and for enjoyment, what happened here should not matter to you.
No, it's not a different story. It is a matter of integrity. Honor. Honesty. Character.
This is a window into this young man's character. The vast majority would never dream of doing what he did. I have dealt with many people of low integrity over the years and have become hardened and less forgiving. They tend to be repeat offenders especially when the dishonesty is, as in this case, so far outside the norm.
I hope this young man will truly learn and grow from this.