Freelancer wrote:
Been happily married for 21+ years, and couldn't disagree more. My wife loves tennis, and I suck at it. She likes to walk, and recreational swim, but has no interest in endurance sports. We each need our own space, interest, and relationships (friend stuff, not the other). Interesting how different folks get the same desired results with opposite approach.
On a somewhat separate note, we've enjoyed 14+ years of the "tri life". But, I was on my "A" game for only a few years. It would not have worked if I was full speed all those years. Even when I KQ'd, I averaged only 12-13 hours/week. For me personally, and I know others that make it work, my marriage, work, family, and sanity would not survive year-after-year of 15-18 hours/week training.
I accept a challenge of "how loud I can whisper" - meaning I have a box of 6-10 hours/ week with some occasional mega blocks. But that's all I can do in my balanced life. I like to see how fast I can go within that box. Edit: I also like my sleep and relaxed downtime. I know I could squeeze out another 5 hours/week to train, but just not me anymore.
"Tennis lessons", huh? Is that what she calls it?
(Sorry, on my iPad, not sure how to make my letters pink. Totally joking.)
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