I'm simply saying that you can't call it a successful marriage if it ends in divorce. Death or not, the titanic is a fine example. The boat needs to get you to the other side, and despite the fact that all was well & good until disaster struck, it didn't make it. The whole point in going to the church (temple, etc) and getting married is to take the vow and make the commitment. If you fail to meet that commitment then I would not call it a success.
You can tell yourself anything you want to make yourself feel better, but if you were to DNF in an Ironman, I sincerely doubt you would call it a success. I sure wouldn't.
Edit: And I certainly understand that not every marriage can work. People change, situations change, etc. Nothing wrong with it, it doesnt mean that anyone is a bad person. I only questioned the gentleman above calling it a success even though he had two marriages end in divorce.
You can tell yourself anything you want to make yourself feel better, but if you were to DNF in an Ironman, I sincerely doubt you would call it a success. I sure wouldn't.
Edit: And I certainly understand that not every marriage can work. People change, situations change, etc. Nothing wrong with it, it doesnt mean that anyone is a bad person. I only questioned the gentleman above calling it a success even though he had two marriages end in divorce.