Okay...
A good friend of mine is now a grand mother....her daughter (20) now has a daughter....(no father in the picture)
The daughter (20) may, or may not put the infant in an adoptive home. She has adoptive parents "picked" but has 72 hours to agree or decline the offer of adoption. If she decides to not give up the child there is no question that "Grandma" will be the mother figure and dad will be "Grandpa" for the most part....
Do we buy baby gifts? Wait until we know they are going to keep the child? Say nothing if they are not?
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What if the Hokey Pokey is what it is all about?
A good friend of mine is now a grand mother....her daughter (20) now has a daughter....(no father in the picture)
The daughter (20) may, or may not put the infant in an adoptive home. She has adoptive parents "picked" but has 72 hours to agree or decline the offer of adoption. If she decides to not give up the child there is no question that "Grandma" will be the mother figure and dad will be "Grandpa" for the most part....
Do we buy baby gifts? Wait until we know they are going to keep the child? Say nothing if they are not?
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What if the Hokey Pokey is what it is all about?