And, according for Facebook, you cuddle after sex.
I don't even know where to begin on my husband except to say: It really is all about him unless I can convince him that whatever I'm asking him to do also benefits him. Just doing it for me is rarely enough. He isn't a bad guy, just doesn't see the value in doing a lot of stuff around the house. He doesn't care if there dishes are piling up. He doesn't care of the carpet is covered in dog hair. He doesn't care that there are no clean towels. He doesn't care of the lawn is overgrown. He just doesn't understand what any of this has to do with him.
He also hates Christmas. I love it. We don't have kids so I can't pull that one out as defense. I don't decorate anymore because I have to do all the work. I have great memories of Christmas as a kid and my mom is totally into it. Luckily my brother and his family live 20 minutes away so I get a brief fix.
The big problems come in when neither one of us want to do something. We are both really stubborn so whatever that thing is won't get done for a looooong time.
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Jen
"In order to keep a true perspective on one's importance, everyone should have a dog that worships him and a cat that will ignore him." - Dereke Bruce
I don't even know where to begin on my husband except to say: It really is all about him unless I can convince him that whatever I'm asking him to do also benefits him. Just doing it for me is rarely enough. He isn't a bad guy, just doesn't see the value in doing a lot of stuff around the house. He doesn't care if there dishes are piling up. He doesn't care of the carpet is covered in dog hair. He doesn't care that there are no clean towels. He doesn't care of the lawn is overgrown. He just doesn't understand what any of this has to do with him.
He also hates Christmas. I love it. We don't have kids so I can't pull that one out as defense. I don't decorate anymore because I have to do all the work. I have great memories of Christmas as a kid and my mom is totally into it. Luckily my brother and his family live 20 minutes away so I get a brief fix.
The big problems come in when neither one of us want to do something. We are both really stubborn so whatever that thing is won't get done for a looooong time.
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Jen
"In order to keep a true perspective on one's importance, everyone should have a dog that worships him and a cat that will ignore him." - Dereke Bruce