Have to agree with ttusomeone. I’m not saying that this isn’t a topic that’s worthy of intelligent, interactive speaking and listening. It is. I’m not saying that the original post was a little non PC (and maybe intentful/trolllike)...hard to argue that point.
I am saying that there is a lot of hostility on this forum. Maybe it’s the medium in this case but I’ve seen this (as we all have) with our current political discourse. It’s hard to talk politics these days and it’s hard to read through threads like this...
If one looks at the scientific literature on human happiness, it’s clear that one of the biggest drivers of one’s happiness is the expression of genuine gratitude for and directly to another human and a real awareness of how ones behavior makes a fellow human feel.
It’s hard for me to see how any off you so violently insulting the human behind the OP can find any joy in that. Do you feel happier calling him a fuckhead?
If you do, I suggest you get some quiet time and think about the kind of human you want to be. Your purpose. Expressing gratitude or meanness? Which is important to you?
Or you could wait to you are old, slow, and not so much relevant anymore (like me). Ultimately, the truth will be revealed to you. The question is when?
And just to be clear, almost all of you throwing the flames around have made a materially positive impact in my life and my participation in this great sport and I’m thankful to you for that. Even these posts are helpful and clarifying for me.
I’m a utilitarian. I genuinely want everybody to be as happy and fulfilled as possible. The science is clear. Mean, aggressive vindictive is not the path to that goal.
Peace out!
rc
Randy Christofferson(http://www.rcmioga.blogspot.com
Insert Doubt. Erase Hope. Crush Dreams.
I am saying that there is a lot of hostility on this forum. Maybe it’s the medium in this case but I’ve seen this (as we all have) with our current political discourse. It’s hard to talk politics these days and it’s hard to read through threads like this...
If one looks at the scientific literature on human happiness, it’s clear that one of the biggest drivers of one’s happiness is the expression of genuine gratitude for and directly to another human and a real awareness of how ones behavior makes a fellow human feel.
It’s hard for me to see how any off you so violently insulting the human behind the OP can find any joy in that. Do you feel happier calling him a fuckhead?
If you do, I suggest you get some quiet time and think about the kind of human you want to be. Your purpose. Expressing gratitude or meanness? Which is important to you?
Or you could wait to you are old, slow, and not so much relevant anymore (like me). Ultimately, the truth will be revealed to you. The question is when?
And just to be clear, almost all of you throwing the flames around have made a materially positive impact in my life and my participation in this great sport and I’m thankful to you for that. Even these posts are helpful and clarifying for me.
I’m a utilitarian. I genuinely want everybody to be as happy and fulfilled as possible. The science is clear. Mean, aggressive vindictive is not the path to that goal.
Peace out!
rc
Randy Christofferson(http://www.rcmioga.blogspot.com
Insert Doubt. Erase Hope. Crush Dreams.