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Wow, I'm not getting a nice feeling from your post either. Are you saying you think it's okay for a 50 year old to be interested in a 21 year old? cuz from the 21 year old perspective, ummm it's not cool at ALL.
If college boys want to hit on me, fine, they're my age, dating's fun and so is just plain flirting. As long as they don't try and talk to me during a swim workout and make me miss an interval. Training is far more important than boys.
My two daughters have gone to a pre-school that, until we moved, was 200yds from my house. One of the girls is still there (kindergarten). The owner, now retired, passed the school to her daughter (probably around my age). Her daughter also runs the place, and is married to a guy who might be older than her mother, and is likely older than me (and much slower, as I used to see him running around the neighborhood). We're talking mid-20s and mid-50s. She's a real looker; him, not so much. Their son is in their school. Everyone seems to be happy.
So, there are those out there, near your age, to whom the attention of a 50 year old is cool. You should ask yourself why you think it's not cool. There can be advantages to each in such a relationship, as should be obvious to you.
(I was 38 when I got married, and my bride was 30. Luckily, I look much younger than I am, because she said she was surprised when she found out my age)
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