Signal8 wrote:
....For me, it's not about discipline. It's simply that I don't care what those in the main group think. Selfish? Yes. Sorry?
No.
Gobsmacked
So you rely on group rides for company (or you'd just do a solo ride when there was no suitable group - right?), but don't feel the least bit bad that you're abusing the intended use of those rides, and likely harming the experience for others?
You take what you can get from these rides but screw everyone else whenever you feel like it.
Why couldn't you simply quit the event and ride along separately if you feel the need to do your own thing. A group ride with an advertised plan and pace should be respected. If it's not what you want then do something else.
What I don't get is someone admitting to selfishness but declaring they're not sorry (i.e. they don't really care how they impact anyone else). Does this not strike you as simply an admission that you have no integrity, and no sense of social responsibility. Do you not feel this is a failing you should address?
Are you complying with social distancing, or does that not suit you either?
Sure it's an entirely different level of importance, but it's exactly the same concept. Individual cooperation, despite personal inconvenience, for the good of the community.
I think it's fair to call your attitude "parasitic".