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Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men"
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I think what this fellow Jordan Peterson (who's apparently in a row with the Social Justice Warrior types in Canada) is saying is that women are attracted to the bad-boy archetype or to flat-out A-holes. ;-)


"Many modern men have been propagandized to believe that modern women want nice, sensitive, empathetic guys who make them feel safe.

And then they are perplexed and frustrated when they eventually find themselves dumped, divorced, or relegated to the friend-zone for perpetuity.

According to Jordan Peterson—clinical psychologist, professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, and popular speaker—such results are not surprising. When he spoke to a gathering of people earlier this year, his thoughts on what women really want in a man supported a stereotype that still has popular cachet: that women are attracted to assholes."

Clinical Psychologist: Women ‘Hate’ Harmless Men | Intellectual Takeout

Then, there's this (also from the linked article):

Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Translation: be a man, not a whiny little bitch.

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:

Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate

So if you're an asshole with money you pretty much have the female world at your feet. Or at least the sort of females that go for that.
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [ThisIsIt] [ In reply to ]
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ThisIsIt wrote:
big kahuna wrote:


Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate


So if you're an asshole with money you pretty much have the female world at your feet. Or at least the sort of females that go for that.

You've hit the nail (or spanked the bottom) right on the head, Mr. Gray. ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [lunchbox] [ In reply to ]
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lunchbox wrote:
Translation: be a man, not a whiny little bitch.


I think that was what the black hats at jump school used to yell at us. ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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"Many modern men have been propagandized to believe that modern women want nice, sensitive, empathetic guys who make them feel safe.

A perfect set up to move into politics.

It is interesting that in terms of how men treat woman, we have a Prime Minister who seems to fit what modern men believe (one of his main focuses is women's rights) and you have a President, who fits into what the psychologist says is what women hate.

I wonder how Trump would do if he ran for office in Canada and how Trudeau would do if he did the same in the U.S.
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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Sanuk wrote:
"Many modern men have been propagandized to believe that modern women want nice, sensitive, empathetic guys who make them feel safe.

A perfect set up to move into politics.

It is interesting that in terms of how men treat woman, we have a Prime Minister who seems to fit what modern men believe (one of his main focuses is women's rights) and you have a President, who fits into what the psychologist says is what women hate.

I wonder how Trump would do if he ran for office in Canada and how Trudeau would do if he did the same in the U.S.

I didn't read the article but..

I could see there being differences between the type of man (most) females want depending on whether we're talking about sex, a partner or a politician.

I thought it was one of those truisms that women don't want the same thing in a man for a (mostly fantasized) sexual encounter as they do in a spouse?
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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Sanuk wrote:
"Many modern men have been propagandized to believe that modern women want nice, sensitive, empathetic guys who make them feel safe.

A perfect set up to move into politics.

It is interesting that in terms of how men treat woman, we have a Prime Minister who seems to fit what modern men believe (one of his main focuses is women's rights) and you have a President, who fits into what the psychologist says is what women hate.

I wonder how Trump would do if he ran for office in Canada and how Trudeau would do if he did the same in the U.S.


More perceptive minds than I will have to answer that question. Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Classic game of Kill, Marry, Fuck.

Sometimes it's all 3
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [knewbike] [ In reply to ]
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knewbike wrote:
Classic game of Kill, Marry, Fuck.

Sometimes it's all 3


Hopefully not in that order, you necrophiliac, you. ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)


Good times.
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.

Long Chile was a silly place.
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
knewbike wrote:
Classic game of Kill, Marry, Fuck.

Sometimes it's all 3


Hopefully not in that order, you necrophiliac, you. ;-)

Ewwww
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Also, this thread, with the mention of women, hate, and vampires, is just begging for a classic slowguy tirade against the she-devil. Haven't read a good one of those in a while.

Long Chile was a silly place.
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Stereotypes are awesome.

I can confirm that my wife has never been attracted to assholes. I have met some of her exes, they aren't that type.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
Stereotypes are awesome.

I can confirm that my wife has never been attracted to assholes. I have met some of her exes, they aren't that type.


Ummmmmm... ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [Sanuk] [ In reply to ]
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Sanuk wrote:
Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)


Good times.


The best, Jerry. The BEST. ;-)



"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BCtriguy1] [ In reply to ]
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BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.


Well, even my wife admits that. Usually after I holler at her to get off the dime and. just. make. a. damn. decision! Quite often, that's after she's dragged me to a shoe store at the local mall. ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BCtriguy1] [ In reply to ]
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BCtriguy1 wrote:
Also, this thread, with the mention of women, hate, and vampires, is just begging for a classic slowguy tirade against the she-devil. Haven't read a good one of those in a while.


X2. Maybe he's too busy making sure he doesn't steer a destroyer into a cargo ship...

DFL > DNF > DNS
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
lunchbox wrote:
Translation: be a man, not a whiny little bitch.


I think that was what the black hats at jump school used to yell at us. ;-)

I seem to recall that sort of phraseology...
I went through there 21 years ago now. I still get the itch to jump, it's just the hours in harness that sucks the fun out of it!

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [lunchbox] [ In reply to ]
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lunchbox wrote:
big kahuna wrote:
lunchbox wrote:
Translation: be a man, not a whiny little bitch.



I think that was what the black hats at jump school used to yell at us. ;-)


I seem to recall that sort of phraseology...
I went through there 21 years ago now. I still get the itch to jump, it's just the hours in harness that sucks the fun out of it!

Yup. It's all the stuff you have to do before you get to the jumping part that's a drag. ;-)




"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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That is why she is with you and they are ex's

BLeP wrote:
Stereotypes are awesome.

I can confirm that my wife has never been attracted to assholes. I have met some of her exes, they aren't that type.

They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.


Well, even my wife admits that. Usually after I holler at her to get off the dime and. just. make. a. damn. decision! Quite often, that's after she's dragged me to a shoe store at the local mall. ;-)

Never go shoe shopping with the wife. You can't help her in any way and will only end up fighting. Nothing good comes from this.

How does Danny Hart sit down with balls that big?
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.


Well, even my wife admits that. Usually after I holler at her to get off the dime and. just. make. a. damn. decision! Quite often, that's after she's dragged me to a shoe store at the local mall. ;-)
Damn, that is about 75% of my female friends. Not only can they work my nerves at times, they tend to be their own worst enemies.
The ass dragging friends tend to get upset with the men who get on them about being indecisive and lazy. To them, men are assholes.
For the true assholes, they are such because they have been burned before (possibly for being nice in the past) and cannot figure themselves out so they mistreat others. To them, women are female dogs.


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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BCtriguy1] [ In reply to ]
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BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.

Don't be naive, and don't be fooled by the #fakenews that says women are indecisive or don't know what they want. They know exactly what they want. That's how they consistently know what to tell men to keep them confused. One decade they tell us they want manly mustachioed men who can fight off a bear, but then they complain about men not being sensitive enough. Next decade they say they want a sensitive man who respects a woman's place in the work force, then complain that men are too feminized. On the one hand they say that they celebrate the "dad-bod," but then they complain that men don't take good enough care of themselves and why don't we all have fitness model ripped abs?

It's a constant campaign of misinformation, designed to keep us guessing and off balance. If you fall for the "poor little me, I can't hardly decide for myself, I don't know what I want because of my silly smaller lady-brain and my out of control hormones, and that's why it takes me 2hrs to get myself ready to go to the grocery store, blah, blah, blah," then you're a fool.

Slowguy

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [ThisIsIt] [ In reply to ]
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ThisIsIt wrote:
big kahuna wrote:


Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate


So if you're an asshole with money you pretty much have the female world at your feet. Or at least the sort of females that go for that.

And you can be president to boot.

“Read the transcript.”
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Pretty sure that was an episode of Cheers 25 or 30 years ago. Lilith sternin crane wrote a book about it.
http://m.imdb.com/...mary?ref_=m_tt_ov_pl

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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Never go shoe shopping with the wife. You can't help her in any way and will only end up fighting. Nothing good comes from this.

I'm 55 and have never once heard of a case where a husband and wife go shopping and both enjoy it. It amuses me when I see a young couple dating (and you know they are only dating if they are shopping together) pretend they enjoy it. Particularly the guys who feign interest in seeing his partner try on the 14th pair pants while expecting an honest response.

Those kind of "harmless men" deserve to be hated.

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
I think what this fellow Jordan Peterson (who's apparently in a row with the Social Justice Warrior types in Canada) is saying is that women are attracted to the bad-boy archetype or to flat-out A-holes. ;-)

We had a case years ago when a female psychiatrist ran off with her psychopath patient who she was treating in prison once he was released. He returned to his life of robbing banks and ended going back to the slammer and her career and credibility was ruined. She still claimed he was just "misunderstood" and tried to stand behind her "professional opinion" rather admit that she had fallen for a loser..

I couldn't tell you how many times in my life I've seen women who on the surface seem to have their act together who then get charmed by a complete loser bad boy type. Maybe its some sort of a mothering instinct where these women think they can change the guy. Yeah, right. That just never happens. In the end they get dragged down.

Women are just hard to understand sometimes.
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cerveloguy wrote:
We had a case years ago when a female psychiatrist ran off with her psychopath patient who she was treating in prison once he was released. He returned to his life of robbing banks and ended going back to the slammer and her career and credibility was ruined. She still claimed he was just "misunderstood" and tried to stand behind her "professional opinion" rather admit that she had fallen for a loser.



Slowguy

(insert pithy phrase here...)
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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That's too funny!! :-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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cerveloguy wrote:
I couldn't tell you how many times in my life I've seen women who on the surface seem to have their act together who then get charmed by a complete loser bad boy type. Maybe its some sort of a mothering instinct where these women think they can change the guy. Yeah, right. That just never happens. In the end they get dragged down.

Women are just hard to understand sometimes.


How many women marry mass murderers and other bad guy types who are doing life sentences in prison? Sure, some of it is a desire for fame and recognition, I suppose. But there are deeper motivations as well, I think.

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [BLeP] [ In reply to ]
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BLeP wrote:
big kahuna wrote:
BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.


Well, even my wife admits that. Usually after I holler at her to get off the dime and. just. make. a. damn. decision! Quite often, that's after she's dragged me to a shoe store at the local mall. ;-)

Never go shoe shopping with the wife. You can't help her in any way and will only end up fighting. Nothing good comes from this.

It's great if she wears a skirt and you have a bit of a thing for feet...

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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big kahuna wrote:
More perceptive minds than I will have to answer that question. Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)

Your pansy motorcycle gang is sissified and has to use guns. My motorcycle gang uses bats, knives and chainsaws. And that's just for the initiation ritual.
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In HS, which admittedly was a while ago, I used to marvel at how many perfectly nice girls were hooked up with guys that were assholes. Was hard to understand.

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [slowguy] [ In reply to ]
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slowguy wrote:
BCtriguy1 wrote:
The article is flawed - everyone knows women don't actually know what they really want.


Don't be naive, and don't be fooled by the #fakenews that says women are indecisive or don't know what they want. They know exactly what they want. That's how they consistently know what to tell men to keep them confused. One decade they tell us they want manly mustachioed men who can fight off a bear, but then they complain about men not being sensitive enough. Next decade they say they want a sensitive man who respects a woman's place in the work force, then complain that men are too feminized. On the one hand they say that they celebrate the "dad-bod," but then they complain that men don't take good enough care of themselves and why don't we all have fitness model ripped abs?

It's a constant campaign of misinformation, designed to keep us guessing and off balance. If you fall for the "poor little me, I can't hardly decide for myself, I don't know what I want because of my silly smaller lady-brain and my out of control hormones, and that's why it takes me 2hrs to get myself ready to go to the grocery store, blah, blah, blah," then you're a fool.

Maybe you are both correct, but neither of you are being sufficiently precise in this matter.

Women may not know what they want specifically at the moment, e.g., pair of shoes at store, which restaurant, which car, etc.

Women know what they want generally: control and power in the situation.

Or do you think that by themselves they could decide which shoes they want and the presence of a man gives them a feeling of power when they are indecisive in the event the man is patient and accommodating?

I've heard it said that that women have a desire to dominate and control their husbands, but if they succeed they will resent or hate their husband.

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rick_pcfl wrote:
big kahuna wrote:

More perceptive minds than I will have to answer that question. Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)


Your pansy motorcycle gang is sissified and has to use guns. My motorcycle gang uses bats, knives and chainsaws. And that's just for the initiation ritual.

Oh, yeah? Well, mister tough guy; we refuse to pay for our mani-pedis. How's that for Billy Badass? ;-)

"Politics is just show business for ugly people."
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big kahuna wrote:
rick_pcfl wrote:
big kahuna wrote:

More perceptive minds than I will have to answer that question. Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)


Your pansy motorcycle gang is sissified and has to use guns. My motorcycle gang uses bats, knives and chainsaws. And that's just for the initiation ritual.


Oh, yeah? Well, mister tough guy; we refuse to pay for our mani-pedis. How's that for Billy Badass? ;-)

That's because half your members work in nail salons and do the work for free versus paying club dues. I bet all of you have great hair cuts too.
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"What women want are dangerous men who are civilized; and they want to help civilize them."

Well said. I think woman want strong masculine men but they also wanted to be treated with love and respect.
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rick_pcfl wrote:
big kahuna wrote:
rick_pcfl wrote:
big kahuna wrote:

More perceptive minds than I will have to answer that question. Now, if you'll excuse me, the rest of the motorcycle gang and I are late for our shootout with a rival gang, and then we're scheduled for some reaving, roving, raping and raiding later tonight. ;-)


Your pansy motorcycle gang is sissified and has to use guns. My motorcycle gang uses bats, knives and chainsaws. And that's just for the initiation ritual.


Oh, yeah? Well, mister tough guy; we refuse to pay for our mani-pedis. How's that for Billy Badass? ;-)


That's because half your members work in nail salons and do the work for free versus paying club dues. I bet all of you have great hair cuts too.


That's right! And here's one of 'em now. ;-)



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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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LOL. They could sell tickets to watch him ride that bike over the Paris-Roubaix race route.
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Could you imagine the chaffing from those slapping over the cobbles?


rick_pcfl wrote:
LOL. They could sell tickets to watch him ride that bike over the Paris-Roubaix race route.
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ThisIsIt wrote:
big kahuna wrote:


Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate


So if you're an asshole with money you pretty much have the female world at your feet. Or at least the sort of females that go for that.

It isn't that we are attracted to assholes ( or money )...it is that we are NOT attracted to boring. You don't have to be mean to us or spend a lot of money on us. Just keep up amused, busy, entertained - be an interesting person.

The same could be said for men - the stereotype is you only go for the hot women that will fuck your eyes out and that your buddies would also want to sleep with....I'm sure that is wrong also.....
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orchidrun wrote:
ThisIsIt wrote:
big kahuna wrote:


Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:

1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate


So if you're an asshole with money you pretty much have the female world at your feet. Or at least the sort of females that go for that.


It isn't that we are attracted to assholes ( or money )...it is that we are NOT attracted to boring. You don't have to be mean to us or spend a lot of money on us. Just keep up amused, busy, entertained - be an interesting person.

The same could be said for men - the stereotype is you only go for the hot women that will fuck your eyes out and that your buddies would also want to sleep with....I'm sure that is wrong also.....

Nah. Pretty much nailed it.

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the stereotype is you only go for the hot women that will fuck your eyes out and that your buddies would also want to sleep with....I'm sure that is wrong also.....

That sounds about right.

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Re: Clinical Psychologist: "Women Hate Harmless Men" [big kahuna] [ In reply to ]
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Slight hijack here: If you get a chance, go check out some of Dr Peterson's content on Youtube. I ran across his stuff a couple of months and have been hooked. He's in the middle of a very interesting series of lectures titled "The Psychological Significance of the Biblical Stories".

You can also access his "Maps of Meaning" and "Personality and its Transformations" lectures from U of Toronto. As far as I'm concerned, this guy is THE national treasure of Canada. Heck, I so enjoy listening to him talk that I listened to an hour of his testimony in front of Canadian senate for bill C16.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-IejKIjC6hw
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Sanuk wrote:
the stereotype is you only go for the hot women that will fuck your eyes out and that your buddies would also want to sleep with....I'm sure that is wrong also.....

That sounds about right.
The thing that catches my attention that she totally nails the generic he-man type male psyche, but then tries to distance herself from her genuinely fabulous insight that should be shouted from every hilltop.

I was halfway out of my chair with a spontaneous exclamation of "HALLELUAH!"

Then I saw "I'm sure that's wrong also".

Wait. "Wrong?" WRONG?

100k years of genders confusing each other and we were right here when it was almost resolved in a clarion moment of clear understanding that would have swept over the world. Almost.

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He's good. Started with the one you linked to and did another. I could listen all day.

They constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within
Dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good T.S. Eliot

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