My husband loves playing video and computer games. I have a little internal negativity towards it because he ends up sitting glued to a screen for hours but it's something he really enjoys, so I let it be. It also means he's easily engaged in something if I am away doing s-b-r stuff. Sometimes I wish he would join me on a workout or be interested in coming to my races but he's very supportive of my time spent s-b-r with friends and perhaps our relationship wouldn't be as harmonious if we were doing those things together. He will occasionally mountain bike with me but only if I organize it. Our mutual "hobby"is hiking/backpacking which we equally enjoy although perhaps for slightly different reasons.