"Do you think your views on Muslims is balanced?"

Yes -:)

because I think (in fact I know first hand) most Muslims are not bad. In fact the cultures many belong to make them naturally very aphable and welcoming people, it's just that they are under a negative influence from their religion. Is recognizing existing facts for what they are and things happening around us everyday re-affirming these acts considered extreme?

Same if I said Christians tend to be influenced to become religious direct salemen and women or that it's ridiculous for a celebate Catholic priest to give marital advice.

If you have a white painted wall in your house and on seeing it I commented that it was white. Is that extreme or just a fact?

If these things qualify as really extreme, since they are fact then you have called my bluff and won.

Happy and Prosperous New Year ahead!