If he didn't care, why did he even bring it up?

However I wasn't one who jumped on him for the weight thing.

It's more of "I want to change her to be what I want, not who she is now"

Which is why I say end it. If he can't accept she's over that part of her life, it's best for both parties involved. Though really if things are bad enough to ask for relationship advice on a forum, it's probably already over.

oh and whoever said buy her a bike. Yes. Buy her a bike!!!