I hear you on this. I love my wife, but with the exception of a few things, I am a much better cook. I cook for my own benefit (and she likes it too).

I also hear you about the hidden chores that I didn't even know about. My wife is laid up as we are expecting twins and a lot of things have gone undone. However, earlier in December when I was swamped at work she got a view of life without me (we ate a lot of take-out that week).