... you know the one: you're spending too much time training/posting to SlowTwitch/What's up with all these pictures of legs?/etc. He says he supports my decision to race IMWA, but that I should be training to finish not training to "race". Hell, my goal time is 13:30, hardly a race time for most folks out there, but a race for me nonetheless. I know it could as easily be a 13even day or a 16:59 day even if I keep my training at the same level (there are things one can't control, or so I've been told ;-)). I have rearranged my training sked three times this year alone, and worked extra hard to NOT impact either he or our darling daughter. Our dd (16mos) is a priority and I get lots of quality time with her - it's HE that's losing out here because I go to bed too early (as an example).
This will be my one & only IM (likely have another child after this one) - at least for many many years... if ever again. I want to do this while our dd is still very young and before #2. I'm already seeing my career slowly disappear with motherhood (well, it's changing, maybe "disappearing" is too strong a term)... it won't be long before that's conpletely changed.
What can I say to reassure him? How to I make him understand that I can't train/plan to "finish", that as an analytical "A" type I need a goal, a challenge? Better yet, what can I DO to make him see that he's no less important than our dd or this crazy IM thing...?
Help!
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"How bad could it be?" - SimpleS
This will be my one & only IM (likely have another child after this one) - at least for many many years... if ever again. I want to do this while our dd is still very young and before #2. I'm already seeing my career slowly disappear with motherhood (well, it's changing, maybe "disappearing" is too strong a term)... it won't be long before that's conpletely changed.
What can I say to reassure him? How to I make him understand that I can't train/plan to "finish", that as an analytical "A" type I need a goal, a challenge? Better yet, what can I DO to make him see that he's no less important than our dd or this crazy IM thing...?
Help!
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"How bad could it be?" - SimpleS