My brother and dad keep trying to get me to go fishing on the weekends and I really don't want to. I have a freezer full of fish from last year that I still haven not eaten. I don't need the 'adventure' ie 8-10 hours bobbing around in ocean trolling for salmon. I really look forward to my weekends so I can get some solid long sessions on the bike or run.
It brings me joy. But I think it hurts their feelings when I don't want to 'hang out'. I feel like there is not enough time on the week to 'hang out'. I can manage a balance between work, wife and kids and my precious free time with which I prioritize running and biking. But random friends always call and throw a monkey wrench in my plans. LOL I sound lame...
And tangentially related, how come all socializing requires drinking? Sitting around playing yard games while day drinking is opposite of how I want to spend my time but it seems to be the go to activity for so many people. I love beer but I make my self wait until I know my day is done, usually around 10pm as I top out on Alpe Du Zwift.
I have a bar b q this afternoon to go to, they love to drink and I'm the guy who will nurse a beer for 2 hours then leave early to go run 10 miles and they think I am the weirdo...
It brings me joy. But I think it hurts their feelings when I don't want to 'hang out'. I feel like there is not enough time on the week to 'hang out'. I can manage a balance between work, wife and kids and my precious free time with which I prioritize running and biking. But random friends always call and throw a monkey wrench in my plans. LOL I sound lame...
And tangentially related, how come all socializing requires drinking? Sitting around playing yard games while day drinking is opposite of how I want to spend my time but it seems to be the go to activity for so many people. I love beer but I make my self wait until I know my day is done, usually around 10pm as I top out on Alpe Du Zwift.
I have a bar b q this afternoon to go to, they love to drink and I'm the guy who will nurse a beer for 2 hours then leave early to go run 10 miles and they think I am the weirdo...