I think you are trying to inject your definition of balance into her life, as if to imply that your definition is more valid than hers.
For you, balance could mean taking the kids to school, go to work, and see/talk to friends all the time. For people living off the grid in Alaska, balance is finding animals to kill, fixing some projects around the homestead, and see neighbors/friends/another human once every 3 months. Anne may not have balance by your definition, but perhaps in her mind, she has a more balanced life than you.
Your definition of a balance life and hers can both be true. What's the percentage of people living by your definition of a balanced lifestyle are getting burned out (i.e., ny household chores, financial stress of owning a mortgage, kids education costs, and etc), having mental issues, and having broken relationships somewhere? My guess is that it's about the same as hers.
The divorce rate for people living by your definition of a balanced lifestyle is very high compared to hers. Hers is 0% since her definition of a balanced lifestyle doesn't include marriage. Which is a better definition? It's a matter of perspective. Neither should feel sorry for the others.
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My marathon PR is "under three, high twos. I had a two hour and fifty-something."
For you, balance could mean taking the kids to school, go to work, and see/talk to friends all the time. For people living off the grid in Alaska, balance is finding animals to kill, fixing some projects around the homestead, and see neighbors/friends/another human once every 3 months. Anne may not have balance by your definition, but perhaps in her mind, she has a more balanced life than you.
Your definition of a balance life and hers can both be true. What's the percentage of people living by your definition of a balanced lifestyle are getting burned out (i.e., ny household chores, financial stress of owning a mortgage, kids education costs, and etc), having mental issues, and having broken relationships somewhere? My guess is that it's about the same as hers.
The divorce rate for people living by your definition of a balanced lifestyle is very high compared to hers. Hers is 0% since her definition of a balanced lifestyle doesn't include marriage. Which is a better definition? It's a matter of perspective. Neither should feel sorry for the others.
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My marathon PR is "under three, high twos. I had a two hour and fifty-something."