Ai_1 wrote:
FatandSlow wrote:
Ai_1 wrote:
juanillo wrote:
jkhayc wrote:
juanillo wrote:
I saw a man within a woman´s body yesterday....
yea...that probably wasn't the best way to put it.
Maybe... not saying it as a lack of respect to women or Chloe...just emphasising she was super....
I'm sure it wasn't intentional but it does show a lack of respect to women in general when instead of saying they're really good in their own right, the phrase you used suggests being good is the preserve of men. Essentially insinuating there is something un-feminine about high performance. Again, I'm not saying you intended offence, but if I was a female athlete and you said that to me, I think I'd be rather angry.
So, you beat the poor guy up because he was, "essentially insinuating there is something un-feminine about high performance" and also saying, "if I was a female athlete and you said that to me, I think I'd be rather angry."
I'm sure your response wasn't intentional either, but by jumping in, you're essentially insinuating that women can't defend themselves.
How's that?
You'll have to explain that logic to me.
I took it to mean that he saw a woman perform at an elite male cyclist's level.
I can understand wanting to focus on the person's effort itself, without bringing up comparisons about known and accepted physiological differences between men and women.
Given that, yeah, it's not fair to bring that up when talking about a woman's efforts.
But your comment about "essentially insinuating there is something un-feminine about high performance" is really reaching deep.
How did he insinuate that if he didn't say anything about feeling that it was wrong, or didn't seem right? He seemed mighty impressed to me. I didn't read it to mean that he thought she was somehow less a woman for displaying the strength of a man.
Now, if he posted a picture of a female crossfitter and said that and said something like "that doesn't look like a woman to me"..........we'd have a whole different story on our hands. Lots of people have problems with "strong women" still being feminine. I don't get that kind of thing at all from his post.
I think you need to dial it back just a bit. The OP gets the point, the entire forum gets the point, let's move on.