Here's the POV of a chica. I did my first IM when K was 20months (IMWA in 2005). At the time I was working full time and was the breadwinner of the family (no K's dad wasn't a Mr Mom, he worked too, so it was daycare). There was a lot of 4am workouts. I then did IMC in 2009 and IMNZ in 2011. I did far less training with each IM, and although my results got better (LOL) we have pretty much given up on IMs for now. It's a real challenge to work full time, have a part-time business (this is new - last few months), have kids, a dog, and try to train for anything. But to be honest, it was far easier when she was younger. At her age (8 now) she is acutely aware of when I choose training over her. She has no problem telling me if she likes it or not. It's a lot harder to explain to her.
Also: I now find that I prefer to spend my time with family far more than I used to.... For me, it was more a function of how much I could actually interact/engage with the kids than anything to do with IM - they just got more "interesting" if that makes any sense. I have found relative "peace" in doing more running races and shorter distance tris. However, that said, I still get a hankerin to go long again... conveniently I am CHEAP so the thought of $700+ for an IM makes it easy to say "no". :-)
I look forward to doing IM** in 2018 with K as my Sherpa ;-)
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"How bad could it be?" - SimpleS
Also: I now find that I prefer to spend my time with family far more than I used to.... For me, it was more a function of how much I could actually interact/engage with the kids than anything to do with IM - they just got more "interesting" if that makes any sense. I have found relative "peace" in doing more running races and shorter distance tris. However, that said, I still get a hankerin to go long again... conveniently I am CHEAP so the thought of $700+ for an IM makes it easy to say "no". :-)
I look forward to doing IM** in 2018 with K as my Sherpa ;-)
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"How bad could it be?" - SimpleS