Yikes! Good that you asked. Because it’s so important and so individual, I recommend either bisaddle or this brilliant demo program:
https://www.bikeseatguru.com/ I’m happy there’s an article on this topic in a prominent triathlon magazine, and that there was apparently a systematic study, BUT (and I cannot lie, it is a big but)
The study and article is referring to the sitbones at the
back being wider in cis women than men,
not the front part! They do mention this later in the article, but the illustration is from the wrong angle for visualizing the parts of the pubic arch (and symphysis) that bear the brunt of weight in an aero position with strong anterior pelvic tilt. Why does it matter? We don’t have that big load of junk off the front, and that part of the pubic bone narrows down to the point in the midline. Saddles like ISM are notorious for being too wide. I got full-out injuries (sprains) from those “narrow” noses on the Dash, ISM, and other saddles all being too wide. YMMV. I say this to emphasize the importance of finding the right fit for the individual, and to not assume what holds for standard road bikes will work well for a tri/aero position.
I fell in love with the SMP T4 and haven’t looked back. One of the cobbs came close second. It was absolutely worth it to shop around. Good luck!