In my mind, I'm still the poor kid living in the ugliest rental house on the block who doesn't understand why anyone would want to be her friend. Fast forward 20 years and due to hard work and good luck, I have a nice home, a lovely husband, many accomplishments, and plenty of wonderful friends. I have to work to not diminish my accomplishments, for example, I wanted to revise "nice home" to "nice but modest home" but had to stop myself.
Do you talk about your good times? Are you worried about other people being jealous of you? Do you talk down about yourself? What are your techniques for appreciating your accomplishments without diminishing them?
I try to stop my girlfriends from talking bad about themselves, but it happens all of the time. I try to celebrate when good things happen for me but I am painfully aware that others may resent me for it so I watch what I say. Is this an issue for you?
Do you talk about your good times? Are you worried about other people being jealous of you? Do you talk down about yourself? What are your techniques for appreciating your accomplishments without diminishing them?
I try to stop my girlfriends from talking bad about themselves, but it happens all of the time. I try to celebrate when good things happen for me but I am painfully aware that others may resent me for it so I watch what I say. Is this an issue for you?