Maybe he was trying to hit on you. ;-)
Oh Jesus, maybe. I'm always the first to call that on any of my girlfriends and the last to see it when it's directed at me.
Why do guys say some of the most fucktarded things when they are trying to hit on you? That really should be its own thread.
The most memorable instance of this happened to me when I was at a conference for work. I work in a almost exclusively male dominated field. At this particular conference our subspecialty group had about 175 people present, and only 2 women, I was one. I had gone out to dinner with my boss, and then we had met up with a group of guys that he knew at a bar for drinks after dinner. One of the guys was hammered and kept hitting on me in the most ridiculous ways. At one point, I looked at my boss for direction, and he said, "You should just hit him," but I decided there really wouldn't have been any fun in that as this guy was a drunk French pussy surgeon (oh no! he might hurt his hands!!). The final straw, however, was when he told me that I shouldn't be working so hard and that I should be a "kept woman."
I honestly could have killed the guy with my bare hands, but I was a peon, and he was (is) very famous in the field. I said, "Be kept? Like an animal? By you and your whiskey dick? I "keep" myself, thank you." His friends howled, and then quickly ushered him out to a cab and apologized profusely for his behavior. It made for a totally awkward situation the next day when I presented my work and half the guys were on my Q & A panel, and he was in the second row. I made sure I made lots of eye contact with him. Cheesedick.
FTR, I am NOT a surgeon, I just work with them.
Trying to fight gravity on a planet that insists