TIT wrote:
tri_yoda wrote:
There's no slippery slope to gay marriage. You are trying to make a false equivalency. Gay marriage did not create new categories for anything, it simply stopped excluding people from joining a category (married) that already existed. There is no category of "gay marriage" to check off, its just "married".
This is precisely the slippery slope argument in action. The very definition of marriage was that it was between a man and a woman. The definition therefore needed to be changed to allow same sex couples to marry. Of course this did not create a new category of marriage, it just radically redefined it.
So next someone comes along and says they want to marry their two girlfriends. They don't want a new category of marriage, they want to be treated exactly the same as a monogamous couple. The definition of marriage has been changed before so another little change won't hurt. Throw in some emotion and a few corporate backers changing their social media profiles and next thing you know polygamous marriage is legal.
This is where you are confused. Where was the "universal definition of marriage" ever agreed upon? It wasn't, even though people tried to use ridiculous arguments like "the bible says this, therefore it universally is applicable to all humans". People tried to construct a false, slippery slope argument, because there simply wasn't any good reason to not allow marriages between people of the same sex.
The trans and non-binary thing itself isn't slippery either (there is no universal reason that humans should not be allowed to classify themselves into any category they want). The question here isn't about the merits or allowability of people being able to identify how they want, its simply a practical question (and this is where the slippery slope is created) is what is the limit of feasible categories to make special accomodations for to allow the conduct of normal business in a reasonable way.
For example, we now have "male", "female" and in many cases "family" bathrooms (And also handicapped accessible, although usually they are shared with the corresponding sex bathroom). Now some people want "trans" bathrooms. Okay, that means a business is supposed to have four different bathrooms. Is that feasible? What if someone says we need a fifth category? At what point do we stop, or say, hey we are all human we just need "bathroom" and everyone uses it without having a huge row and adding more and more bathrooms. One could say that in the past 50 years we have more than doubled the number of bathroom categories (although in fairness, we used to have "colored only" bathrooms, we wisely decided these weren't necessary, so it isn't a monotonic increase).
And back to the question at hand.
1. Do you think we need separate "trans/non-binary" restrooms, or is it okay for these people to use the existing restroom they feel most comfortable with?
2. If you don't think we need separate "trans/non-binary" restrooms, why do we need separate "trans/non-binary" race categories? Why not use the same compromise, that we allow these people to pick either (as opposed to the rest of us, who don't get a choice at all) category that they feel comfortable with. If you are comfortable sharing a bathroom with people, I can't see why you would be uncomfortable being told to compete against them? Should the non-binary people be banished to a separate locker room if it is decided they can't compete against the rest of?
We should listen to different peoples concerns
We should also consider common sense and a limit on the number of special rules and categories in life.