Accepting that working full time, being in a relationship, having a kid, and having a social life outside of sports means I just can't hit 100% of my potential was the best thing I ever did. Also, finally admitting to myself that I can't improve swimming, biking, and running all at the same time. It's allowed me to shift several workouts from "must" to "nice" that puts me in a much better head space. That being said...
If you didn't get up so early, could you go to sleep later - and would that make evening workouts more doable? I need a ton of time in the morning to be ready for any hard efforts so mornings I generally reserve for easy, shorter workouts (the stuff that requires little to no mental energy). I don't like midday workouts but in season I block a slightly longer lunch 1-2x times a week - it's the only way I can swim enough when not just maintaining. All that means my "must" or hard workout is left for when I get home and I try to limit that to 45-75min during the week...hopefully I can get that done right away (getting to work early typically means leaving by/before 5) but if not, it takes some mental effort but it's doable after kiddos bedtime.
If you didn't get up so early, could you go to sleep later - and would that make evening workouts more doable? I need a ton of time in the morning to be ready for any hard efforts so mornings I generally reserve for easy, shorter workouts (the stuff that requires little to no mental energy). I don't like midday workouts but in season I block a slightly longer lunch 1-2x times a week - it's the only way I can swim enough when not just maintaining. All that means my "must" or hard workout is left for when I get home and I try to limit that to 45-75min during the week...hopefully I can get that done right away (getting to work early typically means leaving by/before 5) but if not, it takes some mental effort but it's doable after kiddos bedtime.