Four or five years ago I was in Boston working as an adjuster. I was outside when I heard a young man walking down the street. He was talking to himself. What he said broke my heart and still haunts me. Based on what he was saying, I'm guessing that he was a special needs person who was walking home from school.
I'm sure he was repeating what he had been told many times. He was saying "You are a wonderful young man and any girl would be lucky to have you as a boyfriend".
How many times do you think he went to his parents with a broken heart telling them how lonely he was? How many times do you think that with a broken heart and a warm smile the parents told him that line?
It brings tears to my eyes thinking about his loneliness. If I had the money, I would finance a website where special needs people could link up with others, if for no other reason than to be able to chat and say "I have a girlfriend" or "I have a boyfriend".
One of my good friends has a high functioning autistic son (like mine) and he's told his dad several times that he just wishes that he had a friend. My own son had a best friend from kindergarden to his senior year in high school, but unfortunately the boy fell in with the wrong crowd and they are out of touch.
My heart breaks thinking that my son, my friend's son, and the young man I heard on the street will experience a lifetime of loneliness, hoping for a girlfriend or even just a close friend.
I'm sure he was repeating what he had been told many times. He was saying "You are a wonderful young man and any girl would be lucky to have you as a boyfriend".
How many times do you think he went to his parents with a broken heart telling them how lonely he was? How many times do you think that with a broken heart and a warm smile the parents told him that line?
It brings tears to my eyes thinking about his loneliness. If I had the money, I would finance a website where special needs people could link up with others, if for no other reason than to be able to chat and say "I have a girlfriend" or "I have a boyfriend".
One of my good friends has a high functioning autistic son (like mine) and he's told his dad several times that he just wishes that he had a friend. My own son had a best friend from kindergarden to his senior year in high school, but unfortunately the boy fell in with the wrong crowd and they are out of touch.
My heart breaks thinking that my son, my friend's son, and the young man I heard on the street will experience a lifetime of loneliness, hoping for a girlfriend or even just a close friend.