AWARE wrote:
But I also wholly think that women deserve the right to try anything - but if our physiological or psychological differences create any inadequacies then standards should not be lowered to accomodate. I think women should either find a way to meet them or get out of the way of those who can. (I also whole-heartedly believe in traditions...example: I admire women for wanting to be at the Citadel...but I think if you're going to walk-the-walk you should be able to talk-the-talk...don't expect or request concessions. Everyone knows the rules/standards/expectations.)
I also think this is a very interesting conversation. If it started as a troll I am glad, because I think it has been fun to see where this goes. Regarding the quote above - this is exactly why I don't feel I can identify myself as a feminist. I completely agree with what Aware said here. Anyone should be allowed to try to meet the standard, but sometimes that standard is a universal one that the majority of women may not be able to meet - in my opinion that does not mean the standard should be changed. This does NOT mean I think the treatment of women in the Citadel or Air Force academy is equal or fair - I believe the treatment of women is Much Worse in many cases then their male counterparts.
I also get frustrated when I hear stories from my Mom who was told because she chose to stay home and raise her four children she was doing a diservice to women. While I may be dropping a charge here...I don't believe you can 'do everything' to the best of your ability. You can work your ass off and climb the corporate ladder and be great at it; you can be a full time parent (hardest job there is - and I don't have kids!) and be a great parent; but I don't believe you can be your best at BOTH at the same time all on your own. The one aspect of feminism I have dealt with a lot is the equal pay issue. For me, this is the issue - If I work 40 hours a week at the same job with the same expectations and responsibilities then I deserve the same pay. If I work 40 hours a week at the same job with the same expectations and responsibilities, but leave in the middle of the day because I have to pick up my child at school, or go to a doctors appointment or carpool for sports - this is not equal work. I am NOT saying the latter is wrong, in fact my Dad did except lower pay to attend our sporting events and the like. My point is I think we have to be realistic about what equal work is.
I hope this makes sense....coffee still kicking in!
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