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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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After a not so fun divorce...I was the Mr. Dad taking my then 5 year old daughter to Brownie meetings because her mom is/was a flake. The Brownie troop leader was this tall hot blonde. Did some asking around and found out that she was also divorced. Married a year later, and that was 5 years ago. She is a PhD (does cancer research) and has a much bigger brain than this Naval aviator/Airline pilot does...so I definately traded up! I am a very lucky man and wish I had met her many many years ago...
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [mmfred] [ In reply to ]
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cmon clm, you have to admit the USA does have a very litigious culture. I especially abhor the vast amount of medical malpractice suits that seem to happen.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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I had just moved to Portland and was working part time in a bike store before finding a job. She was in grad school and was doing an internship in Portland. She came in and bought a bike from me. I asked her to a July 4th party, she accepted, we got married 4 years later.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [fulla] [ In reply to ]
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Lets not forget the sheer size of our country, population and legal system. There are always going to be a number of frivolous lawsuits, but most lawyers I know won't waste their time on those types of cases. Sometimes justice requires a complaint to be filed........kj

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Re: OT: how did you meet? [fulla] [ In reply to ]
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cmon clm, you have to admit the USA does have a very litigious culture. I especially abhor the vast amount of medical malpractice suits that seem to happen.


Just to clear up some confusion about the work attorneys in the US do, most lawyers never step foot in a court room. Plaintiffs attorneys, the ones that will work on contingency fee basis, are a small segment of the total US lawyer population. A large percentage of attorneys are transactional attorneys - they work on business transactions. Another large percentage of attorneys do regulatory work in specific industrys - i.e., environment, health care, energy, labor, etc. Still another large percentage of lawyers is made up of specialists - i.e., securities, tax, ERISA, entertainment, government affairs, intellectual property, etc. Obviously, there are alot of litigators and bankruptcy attorneys who are required to make regular court appearances, but many of these people represent large corporations doing defense work, work as public defendants, attorney generals (and obviously assistant AG's), work for state/city/federal agencies, etc.

The vast, vast majority of students graduating from the top law schools want nothing to do with plaintiff work. I know 1 classmate of mine who choose to do plaintiffs work out of a class of more than 300 graduates. None of the top US law firms do plaintiffs work or would allow their attorneys to work on a contingency fee basis.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [fulla] [ In reply to ]
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we have llbs. law is undergrad here, but you do need to get into law school. most people do another degree at the same time as their law degree. to do this takes 5 years.
Way back when, while at least in the 1960s and before, US law schools used to give their graduates LLB degrees. Eventually, this seemed not to make sense because everyone at a US law school already has a Bachelor's degree in something, and law school is definitely harder than getting a Ph.D., at least work wise if not politics wise. So, law schools started to hand out JD (Juris Doctor) as the degree. Of course, this creates another odd situation because the next degree that you can get after a JD is the LLM degree, which is a masters, not a doctorate. My law school had a decent number of foreign nationals that wanted, for whatever reason, to get an American law degree, and they were awarded LLMs. Most of them were from elsewhere in the Anglosphere so most had LLBs from their native countries.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [EDS] [ In reply to ]
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cmon clm, you have to admit the USA does have a very litigious culture. I especially abhor the vast amount of medical malpractice suits that seem to happen.


Just to clear up some confusion about the work attorneys in the US do, most lawyers never step foot in a court room. Plaintiffs attorneys, the ones that will work on contingency fee basis, are a small segment of the total US lawyer population. A large percentage of attorneys are transactional attorneys - they work on business transactions. Another large percentage of attorneys do regulatory work in specific industrys - i.e., environment, health care, energy, labor, etc. Still another large percentage of lawyers is made up of specialists - i.e., securities, tax, ERISA, entertainment, government affairs, intellectual property, etc. Obviously, there are alot of litigators and bankruptcy attorneys who are required to make regular court appearances, but many of these people represent large corporations doing defense work, work as public defendants, attorney generals (and obviously assistant AG's), work for state/city/federal agencies, etc.

The vast, vast majority of students graduating from the top law schools want nothing to do with plaintiff work. I know 1 classmate of mine who choose to do plaintiffs work out of a class of more than 300 graduates. None of the top US law firms do plaintiffs work or would allow their attorneys to work on a contingency fee basis.
You are right that a large number of US attorneys do not work in litigation. And, even most "litigators" rarely go to court. For example, I don't think I've been in court ten days this year, but I'm probably not a good example because I do a lot of appellate work. More and more law firms, even large ones, are starting to do some "plaintiff-side" work now. Not slip and falls or anything like that, but there is big money to be made suing other people, and the big law firms are very much about making as much money as possible.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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Now, this will be a big surprise given my last two posts on this thread, but I met my wife in a law library. Almost get into a fight with a guy reading CCH tax manuals that thought we were talking too loud, called us both "shysters" and then asked me to go outside to settle things. I declined because I quickly and correctly concluded that getting into a fight in a library would not impress the girl. Being married to another litigator does make arguing with each other difficult because both of us are very good at it, but you can never really win an argument with your husband or wife, can you?
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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Before this turns into another "America the Beautiful" post about politics, religion or social services, I'd like to post my story!

I was working at a high-end bike shop while in University (as the only female "Hard goods" sales person) who employs a ton of tee-shirt folding part-timers. I had been in various stages of dating fellow employees all without knowledge of each other and was smitten with another one. I had a bad night of rejection (at a bar) and was walked home by a really "nice guy" part-timer. I left the shop 3 months later (and all the boys in the shop) and started a "big-girl job" at a bike company. He called me one day - I called him back, but he never returned my call. Finally went out for friendly drink to catch up a couple days after my birthday (i turned 24 and he was 21 HURRAY for robbin' the cradle!). I've been smitten with him and him alone ever since! He is my shoulder, support, love of my life. He's chasing his dream of professional road racing and I’m chasing my dream of M.D. at the end of my name.

Thanks for reading. This thread really is inspiring!
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [java_jane] [ In reply to ]
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of course i realise not all lawyers are ambulance chasers. i just don't think your country's justice/legal system promotes justice at times. i mean what good is a justice system if it ligitigates out of existence medical practitioners in certain areas. jury awards for damages should be scrapped too.



of course i say all of this with a very superficial understanding of the american legal system.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [fulla] [ In reply to ]
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I think most lawyers would agree that there needs to be some serious tort reform. Myself included. The plaintiffs bar, however, will fight to the death on the issue.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [CTL] [ In reply to ]
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Glad others pointed out the number of non-litigious lawyers here. As a corporate attorney, I have set foot in a courtroom twice in 14 years of practice -- once on the day I was sworn in as a member of the bar, and once to attend a hearing on a matter involving the company I work for, to monitor my outside counsel. I, and others like me, principally negotiate transactions and agreements, with the goal of being clear enough that the parties never end up in litigation.

I've never tossed business cards around the scene of a car accident, either. ;-)

Sorry to continue this tangent, but now perhaps this will go no further OT.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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Met my wife of 3 years at a "young lawyers luncheon" at work. We both worked for the Department of Transportation; I for the Coast Guard, she as an honors attorney rotating through different agencies (she's clearly smarter than me). I quickly signed up for a volunteer event she was a group leader for, and 8 months later we were engaged.

Two lawyers in one household is downright dangerous. On the one hand, we've clearly had the upper hand on a drainage issue we've been negotiating with the developer and the city regarding our property. On the other hand, I never win an argument with her.

My parents were in the same high school class although never knew each other. My mom was the A student, my dad the jock only looking to have fun. My dad's sister set them up on a date after they graduated, but when my mom saw how drunk my dad was at a party the night before, she didn't bother to set her alarm (they were going skiing) thinking he'd forget and never wake up. He knocked on the door at 7:00 a.m. as scheduled. They'll be married 35 years this fall.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [java_jane] [ In reply to ]
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"(i turned 24 and he was 21 HURRAY for robbin' the cradle!)"

The last gal I dated just turned 41...I'm 29...does that mean she robbed the whole nursery??? ;-)

The Other TD
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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Met my wife at work. My parents met when my dad cheated on his first wife with my mom. They spent five years together, had my sister and me, then he left her to go back with his first wife. He was with her for 30 more years until he died. Just a classic love story I suppose.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [CGTRIGUY] [ In reply to ]
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I used to find this thread depressing but it gives me hope that perpetually single people like myself and Tom D do have a shot at a happy committed relationship if we are patient enough.

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Re: OT: how did you meet? [squid] [ In reply to ]
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I'm single and this thread is depressing. :)


Copy that! ;)

My parents met in 1971 while working at the same company in Holland. My mom was a sexy college intern and my dad was a dashing young American brought in from the US headquarters for a 6-month stint. He stayed a year, swept her off her feet, and the rest is history. As for me, I am patiently waiting...
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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i played in a punk rock band. she was a punk rocker. together eight years now, married for one.



"Failure is an event, not a person."
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [chickenlegs] [ In reply to ]
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I'll keep the lawyer tangent going. My wife and I met at a bar the first week of law school. I was there for the cheap beer and to see the band. What I got was a short blonde standing next to me that would not shut up. She chased me relentlessly ( or so I like to think) and we have been married for 13 years.

As to the law field I have a small town practice and am a litigator. I am usually in court once if not more times every day of the week. Last week I was in court for eight seperate cases. I always find it interesting that there are so many attorneys that never see the inside of a court room. With the issue of tort reform you might want to delve a little deeper. If doctors are leaving the state because of high malpractice premiums, they might want to look into the actual number of suits filed and the total payed out in awards. In every state study I have seen the insurance company is still making 10's of millions in profits even with the awards. Also in every state that has enacted some sort of tort reform the med mal premimiums have not gone down. Keep in mind that the business of the insurance company is to collect premiums, not to pay out damages. If their investments aren't making moneye then thay have to generate revenue somewhere else, like raising premiums. I don't want to start a pissing match with this issue, but trying to blame the lawyers for all of it is wrong, there is plenty of blame to go around.
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [tyler_durden] [ In reply to ]
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"The last gal I dated just turned 41...I'm 29...does that mean she robbed the whole nursery?;-)"

Damn straight that's the whole nursery, TD! RIGHT ON SISTAH!
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Re: OT: how did you meet? [miami79] [ In reply to ]
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Not married but as I teach spinning, yoga, and pilates at one of the gyms in town I've met my last 3 girlfriends in classes that I've taught. This is an interesting thread and makes me feel guilty that I have no idea how my parents met...they celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary by getting a divorce.

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Re: OT: how did you meet? [java_jane] [ In reply to ]
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[ I've been smitten with him and him alone ever since! He is my shoulder, support, love of my life. ]

wow! Tha's very touching. Now i'm REALLY depressed. I think I'll go find a beer. :)
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