I am probably the last person you should ask! I am originally from Huntington Beach, CA and moved out here 6 years ago. Due to family reasons I am not able to move back but would in a heartbeat.
I currently live in Morrisville which is right outside Raleigh, Durham & Chapel Hill. People love this area because it has mild temperatures compared to the North or South. However because of the humidity I find the heat of the summer unbearable. Remember, I am from the beach where humidity is the spray from the ocean. I am use to temperatures in the 80-90s in the summer with cool nights and winters that may dip in the 50's.
People like that the beach or the mountains are only 2 hours away. They are beautiful. And there are trees all over the place. If you don't know what exit you need off the highway do not expect to find it based on landmarks.
Real estate prices are relatively lower here. My townhome in Cali, which now goes for about $400k would be about $170k here. Prices are about $100 a square foot.
There are many country roads to ride but I would not consider them safe, but that can be anywhere. Again, I am used to bike lanes and wider streets not 2 lane highways where rednecks think it's fun to play chicken or honk their horns at you while flying by. I was hit by a car last year, a hit and run, so I may be a bit bitter still :)
It is a common notion that people are friendlier in the south. That may be true but I have to say I prefer the straight-forwardness of Cali. Unfortunately, I have run into quite a few people that will stab you in the back in a heartbeat while smiling and offering a "sweet tea". Another thing I find with people here is that this is a place that has been inhabited by a lot of people "looking" for a new start whether it is in business, family, whatever. Some of these people have not grasped the fact that changed lives do not come from a change in geography.
I believe you currently live in Texas? And you are moving due to a change in job status? The humidity may not be an issue for you. I would bet this area is quite similar to what you are already use to.
I have to say that I am definitely in the minority when it comes to not loving NC. I do notice that you rarely find someone from Cali staying here. I would trade the big yard for my little townhouse back home by the beach by all my family in a second.
Sorry if it sounds negative - good luck on your decision and let me know if you have specific information you need.
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maylene jackson, cscs
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