If I got bent out of shape every time a womens past me, I would have quit sports a long time ago.
Interesting story: I was doing my swim workout one day about, oh, 6-7 years ago. A friend was there with her 2 y/o doing the infant survival swim thing. As I was resting between sets, she says to me that the girl in the lane next to me was much faster than me. That "girl" was 2 time world champion and Olympic gold medalist Rachel Komisarz.