davidalone wrote:
Fortunately (or unfortunately) I am marrying an asian girl. Asians have a strong tradition where a fancy wedding dinner is pretty much the norm, so its a non negotiable here. We arent planning anything very fancy by asian standards, trust me. Just a 'medium sized' wedding.
The thing is, it's also in asian culture for wedding guests to give a token of blessing to the couple and this usually takes the form of cash. Most guests usually cover the cost of their seat at the wedding dinner and I expect to recover most of the wedding expenses.
I married an Asian girl. We got married at the courthouse because neither of us wanted a wedding, and certainly not to pay for it.
I am also aware of your second point. That being the case, if you expect to recover the expenses, why is this a question? If the wedding is revenue-neutral, you aren't facing a choice between it and the bike as you pose.
Let me also say, "tradition" is a piss-poor reason to make a bad decision.
The point is, ladies and gentleman, that speed, for lack of a better word, is good. Speed is right, Speed works. Speed clarifies, cuts through, and captures the essence of the evolutionary spirit.