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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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littleone wrote:
Thank you for validating why I did not want to attach this to my other account.

H20Fun... is that you?
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [jkatsoudas] [ In reply to ]
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I'd recommend getting at least three Ironman tattoo's to let people know you're wanting to be taken seriously regarding the sport.
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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No one cares what you did, ironman or something else entirely. Well, your family and your real friends might care. No one else cares. If they pretend they have an opinion about it you ought to pretend you give a shit about their fake opinions.
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Dilbert] [ In reply to ]
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Cant really believe this!

I never hear those kind of comments, only "that is a lot of time to use on a sport " and "omg i would never be able to do even half of that".

But im a little suspicious of your post, why would you double post it to reddit too?

https://www.reddit.com/r/triathlon/comments/75y4vn/uplifting_comments_after_completing_an_ironman/




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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [noon3225] [ In reply to ]
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noon3225 wrote:
Are you very overweight? This is the only explanation I can think of.

Or all the stickers on the car?



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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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littleone wrote:
I look inferior
This right here. Who told you this or why do you think this? You have to work out the self-esteem or self-image problem before you can expect others to change their outlook toward you.

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Here is another for you... for my first IM, people at work placed bets on whether I would finish or not.
Who told them you were doing an IM? If it wasn't you, you have to have a talk with your cheerleaders and get them to lay off. A second way to deal with this is to ask to get in on the betting.

Less is more.
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [zedzded] [ In reply to ]
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For reference outside of my friends that also do Triathlon I really don't talk about it much. The only time I bring it up is if I have to turn down an invitation to something due to either training or family constraints. I also do not do any social media unless you consider slowtwitch social media. So in short I can totally believe what the OP is saying.
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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You clearly need a new father-in-law.

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [RandMart] [ In reply to ]
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I can appreciate the commitment. Maybe not the execution, but that's an A+ for commitment.

RandMart wrote:
noon3225 wrote:
Are you very overweight? This is the only explanation I can think of.


Or all the stickers on the car?

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Big Endian] [ In reply to ]
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Big Endian wrote:

littleone wrote:
Here is another for you... for my first IM, people at work placed bets on whether I would finish or not.

Who told them you were doing an IM? If it wasn't you, you have to have a talk with your cheerleaders and get them to lay off. A second way to deal with this is to ask to get in on the betting.


This right here. And, put your money on "not" finishing. Nothings more disarming than self-deprecation.

Change your motto: "I do IM for the goodies in the Medical Tent!"
Last edited by: Tom_hampton: Oct 13, 17 11:46
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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That's very odd. I usually just get very good responses.

The only occasion that someone actually says something remotely similar to that is when a weekend warrior who has completed a couple Half marathons in, say, 1h45, asks about my last HIM run split. When I say something like 1h38, I have heard more than once "yeah, that's an ok pace."
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [lassekk] [ In reply to ]
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Strange. By chance, is this the same cat that was fired by his coach for not enough trucker hat? :)
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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You keep saying this
littleone wrote:
I didn't bring up the subject

Which clearly does not jive with this
littleone wrote:
... for my first IM, people at work placed bets on whether I would finish or not.

Nobody at my place of work would know that I did triathlons if I did not tell them. Even now, I will do races and just take some vacation days, and nobody knows I did a race. People don't just automatically assume you did an Ironman if you take a few days off of work. There is obviously more to this than you are divulging.

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Runner Rick] [ In reply to ]
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Runner Rick wrote:
You keep saying this
littleone wrote:
I didn't bring up the subject


Which clearly does not jive with this
littleone wrote:
... for my first IM, people at work placed bets on whether I would finish or not.


Nobody at my place of work would know that I did triathlons if I did not tell them. Even now, I will do races and just take some vacation days, and nobody knows I did a race. People don't just automatically assume you did an Ironman if you take a few days off of work. There is obviously more to this than you are divulging.

This exactly.

Sometimes when I travel to races and people ask me why I am going XYZ I say I am going to just spend the weekend there with the wife.
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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [littleone] [ In reply to ]
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littleone wrote:
I get some good responses... but usually shock. Like I said... I don't bring the topic up... it comes to me. The comments are from people with alpha-personalities... or think they are. Thank you for validating why I did not want to attach this to my other account.

Thank you letting me know you have another account. That's explicitly against forum rules. I've deleted this account accordingly.

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Rappstar] [ In reply to ]
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Thank you letting me know you have another account. That's explicitly against forum rules. I've deleted this account accordingly.

I was surprised how long that took.

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Leddy] [ In reply to ]
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Leddy wrote:
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Thank you letting me know you have another account. That's explicitly against forum rules. I've deleted this account accordingly.


I was surprised how long that took.

He must've been otherwise engaged

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Re: dealing with uplifting comments after completing ironman? [Runner Rick] [ In reply to ]
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Runner Rick wrote:
Nobody at my place of work would know that I did triathlons if I did not tell them.

People around work round up my exploits far more than I do

If someone is contemplating starting a C25K program I hear "Oh! You should talk to Randy! He does marathons and Ironmans and races bikes and shit like that"

"Um, no I don't, I just run a bunch, and bike a bit, and swim a little, but thanks for thinking of me"

"What's your claim?" - Ben Gravy
"Your best work is the work you're excited about" - Rick Rubin
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