aarondb4 wrote:
BCtriguy1 wrote:
aarondb4 wrote:
j p o wrote:
knewbike wrote:
Be an hour late because your junky car refuses to start. Kick some ex boyfriend guy out of her room when you arrive with an uncomfortable stare down. Don't bother to go out and have sex. Wait. That was my 1st date with my wife 27 years ago.
I was going to go with sit around with your friends playing euchre and drinking beer then go to a midnight showing of The Wall. That is my go to move. It worked once and is all I have.
My wife asked me on a coffee date, my response "why would I want to do that?" Pissed her right off that a guy would turn her down so she doubled down on getting together with me. Next encounter was at a mutual friends bday party that she "encouraged" me to attend. I was absolutely shit faced when she showed up, she walked right up to me, gave me a hug, we kissed, she took my drunk ass back to my place when the bar closed and hasn't left since.
She still maintains the only reason she was interested was because I had the audacity to turn her down. She was not accustomed to that sort of treatment from guys.
I turned down my wife a couple of times and even tried to break up with her once early on in dating! 10 years later I still haven't managed to shake her :-).
Guess they really do only want what they can't have!
I suppose! I didn't do it as some stupid head game or power play, I was just out of a serious relationship just got home from travelling, I knew she was looking for something more serious then I was really in the right headspace for at that point in my life. In the end it was nice because we got to know each other slowly over a long period of time.
Long Chile was a silly place.