solitude wrote:
ericmulk wrote:
Jason80134 wrote:
ericmulk wrote:
Jason80134 wrote:
ggeiger wrote:
Often times sacrifices have to be made to win it all. Some don't make that choice. Most I know who have won did make the tough choice and give up all but that quest. Dave and Mark's solo training trips, Reid's suffering, Welchy, all the germans, they paid the price and won or gave it their best shot. Some never pay the price and wonder what if?
I agree totally. But I don't see that as being a "better" choice than, say, just being a elite working professional but still maintaining a life. If you chose to sacrifice family for winning you could be in the same position looking back with regret at having given up precious moments with your family. Again, it just depends on what is most important to each individual.
Prob better just to wait on kids until after you retire in your early/mid 40s so you can focus all your energy on your sport. Still plenty of time for kids from age 45 on, at least for guys; girls might need to retire at 35 to have their kids.
I don't agree. You can't say it's "better". It depends on your objectives. Maybe someone is totally happy with being a working pro and having a somewhat normal life with kids while he's doing it, thereby maybe sacrificing a shot at the absolutely #1 spot in the sport. It's not wrong or right. It's a personal preference.
OK, well, you're right, it is in theory a personal choice but, IMO, you either have the humongous fury and passion deep down in the "depths of your being" or you don't. You can't really manufacture it but rather it comes from some unknown place in your mind. Once the passion/fury person's competitive days are over, he/she may well feel at loose ends, and maybe then get married, have kids, etc, but the again, maybe not.
Some people have the passion and fury for other things too, e.g. curing cancer, being a teacher, raising a child, etc. Just because their passion and fury isn't for winning the pinnacle of the sport doesn't mean they are somehow less passionate or have somehow made incorrect choices. In fact, I would argue the opposite.
Hmmm, well, I understand your words and intent but, having done research and having taught a bit, I can't really agree that the passionate cancer researchers and teachers have to go through the same level of suffering as the athletes who aspire to be the very best in the world in their sport. Research and teaching are relatively relaxed endeavors, e.g. lots of time spent reading research done by others while drinking coffee. This just does not compare IMO to training 30-40 hr/wk, being just exhausted for weeks on end, but then trying to hit your taper just right to be at your absolute peak on race day(s). This is all just IMO though, and we can perhaps just agree to disagree. To me, the level of punishment that top athletes endure is just beyond comparison with anything in the non-athletic world, excepting possibly some very small but grueling parts of the military.
I certainly would not say that anyone who is passionate about their work has made an "incorrect choice", and i don't think any of my posts above imply that at all. Each person has a diff modus operandi and what excites one person bores another. Also, quite possibly the teacher and cancer researcher are doing "more important" work than a pro athlete, although the role model aspects of the top athletes, and even top local athletes, should not be overlooked, espec given the ever-increasing number of overweight and obese people:)
Cheers,
Eric
"Anyone can be who they want to be IF they have the HUNGER and the DRIVE."