Not to Damon in particular, but a general comment on stack....
Here is my hypothesis on why so many people think these bikes (3T and Open UP) have stack that is too low. For the past decade or so, having a lot of drop was fashionable. The result is that a lot of people started riding steep effective STA, on frames that were too small by historic standards, in order to get that fashionable looking height difference between the seat and the bar. That is why you see people 6' tall on 54cm frames, when they would have been on 58cm frames prior to the mid 00's.
So now someone thinks their correct size frame is 1 or 2 sizes too small, and they want a taller bike for gravel. What they really need is the larger size, which gives them the stack, and to move the seat back. That opens up the cockpit, and provides the correct spacing, with little to no overlap between knees and elbows. Moving the seat back gets the weight where it needs to be; less on the front wheel to prevent wash-out in corners and diving in soft surfaces (sand). Also, as the seat goes back, it also needs lowered, which effectively raises the bar relative to the rider.
These bikes are designed for fast gravel riding, which means you still need to get low and keep your torso out of the wind. Personally, I find the geometry of these bikes exactly where it needs to be. (I've purchases an Open UP frameset, but an waiting for the parts to arrive to build it up.)
Effectively, these geometries go back to old school classics road bikes of the 90's; and a race like Paris Roubaix is the prototypical "gravel race".
2015 USAT Long Course National Champion (M50-54)