In Reply To:
"I think I would be mortified to think about my little girl getting naked for a magazine"
Then raise her in such a way that you create a value system in her that will prevent her from doing it. Although, that same value system may instill a sense of pride in her body, and she'll do it anyway. How do you expect to teach your kids "right and wrong" if you always seek to shield them from what you think is 'wrong'? To me, something like this would be a perfect opportunity to trigger a discussion on the topic with my kids. Granted, I don't go out of my way to expose them to Playboy, nudity, etc. but if its unavoidable (like the SI swimsuit edition at the grocery store checkout) then talk about - don't stand in front of the magazine and hope they don't see it. Open dialogue makes more sense than pretending something doesn't exist.
I have 3 girls - ages 6,5 and 2.5.
I completely agree that it is the parent's responsibility to instill the proper values in their children -- no question. However, you must admit that when more and more women -- WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL IN OTHER AREAS LIKE SPORTS -- choose to pose nude, it makes it harder to instill values in your children b/c "societal norms" make it ok to engage in that type of behavior. Not using that as an excuse, just saying it makes it harder on parents.
This has been a fantastic discussion, but, it has gone off on several tangents. We could debate whether or not young women (in general) should pose nude. But, that is not the point of my original post. The point of the post is this: Amanda Beard, world class athlete, poses nude. So, does this diminish her athletic achievements? Why did she pose nude, b/c she realized she could not stay in the public spotlight based on her athletic skill alone? Does this send the message to young girls that athletic achievement is not enough -- you must be sexy and be willing to bare all? Why do they keep putting Danica Patrick in sexy dresses and parade her all around (for example)? Isn't that saying the same thing?
I don't know kids, so, I don't know. I will say it again, I, personally, have no issue with her posing. I love to look at fit naked bodies. But, the article raises some great points and really gets me thinking.
If I had a young daughter who excelled at something, I would want her to make it on her own skills and not have to worry about displaying her body to get recognition.
So, is it a problem? That's for people much smarter than I to determine. I just see the
potential for problems.
If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went. - Will Rogers
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