Engner66 wrote:
I think it's great that both you and Stern engaged in the discussion. Kudos for responding. Some of us feel that the vlog was a bit harsh on Stern, some other fans would disagree and that's fine. He is a neo-pro and certainly learning. However, I think all of us are in agreement that the rules could be rectified to prevent these situations. I reckon that "spoiled brat" can come across as harsh if read as text only and without the context of a not so serious verbal conversation. e.g.. my wife calls me a spoiled brat all the time when I complain about a having a bad workout, weather, amazon packages not delivered on time, etc. So please don't take the comment too seriously, we really enjoy your social media content.
It's funny how you talked about racing in the midst with pro women and passing them, earlier in the thread (albeit at another race). You were in that race passing a pro woman and giving a play by play, but guess what, you were talking about yourself in talking about your experience. It is totally OK if you want to share your experience, and one could view it as bragging about your race, or if you want it could be viewed as a explaining a point with a context from your racing. You gave an example from your experience !!! It is actually OK to do that, because not everyone has been in the mix with what goes on with pro women's racing, so your context is actually useful, even though it is talking about your personal podium chase!!!
But you also called Paula a spoiled brat and when she came on here, you needed to backtrack. It is OK if you want to call pro athletes anything you want. They are pros, and the rest of us are fans. Fans say all kinds of things they would not say to the face of pros because this is what fans do if the sport is professional enough. But when they show up, just own what you said about the pro. You called her a spoiled brat, and its OK to own it rather than backtrack. Its not like you were trying to qualify what you implied calling her a spoiled brat until she ACTUALLY showed up here.
Everyone is human, You could have cut Paula more slack before she showed up. She did not have a perfect race, but she was on the tarmac fighting it out in the real world and she's on here with her own identity owning her body of work defending herself to an anonymous person calling her a spoiled brat.