I've noticed a lot of friends and others around me are divorcing as they become empty nesters - I did a quick internet search as I'm curious and found that divorce rates amongst empty nesters have doubled over the past 10-20 years to 1 in 4. This holds true in my experience around our network of friends and colleagues.
In two years, assuming my youngest heads to college and my eldest stays at college we will be sans kids in the house and I can see that it will take some time and energy to reconnect as all of our time and energy in the marriage has been focused on the kids. At the same time, we've changed along the way as well. I can definitely see how the couple look at each other one day and realize they hardly know each other anymore. Seems that it's mostly driven by women.
Sorta sad.
http://miami.cbslocal.com/2012/06/01/empty-nest-divorce-rate-rising/
In two years, assuming my youngest heads to college and my eldest stays at college we will be sans kids in the house and I can see that it will take some time and energy to reconnect as all of our time and energy in the marriage has been focused on the kids. At the same time, we've changed along the way as well. I can definitely see how the couple look at each other one day and realize they hardly know each other anymore. Seems that it's mostly driven by women.
Sorta sad.
http://miami.cbslocal.com/2012/06/01/empty-nest-divorce-rate-rising/