Kylek42 wrote:
Assuming cycling indoors isn't an option for you...
...there are so many safer options for you to continue your cycling with. Maybe take a step back from it and only go in groups like you said...
...Whatever makes you comfortable, but I see no reason to give up completely.
Agree completely with these comments here.
First and foremost, investing in a sold trainer is a no-brainer. ROI is easy, especially if you live in the northern regions of the country. From late Oct to May, I ride exclusively on a Kickr because its just too cold in MN to do otherwise. In the summer, if its raining, same deal. In addition, you can be so precise in your training, I consider indoor riding to be an advantage, not a concession.
Second, I do not ride outside alone, ever. There are too many risks as you've mentioned, it's just not safe. Even when we are group riding, we are all on high alert, you just don't have a choice anymore. People and technology are in a really bad place, autonomous driving is the only way we get on the other side of it IMO, and that is a long way off.
Finally, there is no good reason to give up completely; none at all. In lots of regards, you are an excellent role model for your family, promoting a healthy lifestyle. This just provides you with an opportunity to teach them how to deal with adversity as well. At the end of the day, there are risks in all activities... you could give up triathlon, buy a set of gold clubs, and get hit by a golf cart full of drunk golfers. You could buy a kayak and get hit by a powerboat. The list of reasons why NOT to do something goes on and on...