Relative to your current setup, here's what I would do (I work with pretty much all XC folks here in central Indiana, but had a few folks at Leadville last year using the same setup philosophy) - go with a 80 or 90mm stem and the bike with the reach that will get you to where you are now. The reason for this is the longer wheelbase will make it easier to achieve a good overall weight balance and handling. I target around 35% front/65% rear once suspension and tire pressures are tuned. Keeping the front light will not only allow you to corner well, but it makes it easier to work the front end and overcome the tire patch.
Looking at the bikes you listed, these all have pretty different geometries. The Scalpel has the steepest head tube angle, resulting in a shorter wheelbase for a bike with nearly the same reach. The Decree is more trail than XC, with a more slack head tube and greater suspension travel contributing to a relatively long wheelbase. I would even consider the medium Decree, as long as you can stand over it comfortably. If you can ride these, you might get a feel for what feels good.
Regarding the bars, 600mm is definitely narrow nowadays, considering the bikes you listed all come stock with 740-780mm wide bars. If you were to try the wider bars, I would shorten the stem 10mm for every 100mm of bar width difference. The idea is that this would maintain the distance from the shoulder socket to the hand while maintaining the rest of your body geometry. If you can get a bar with a bit more backsweep, that would help neutralize your wrists and relax your shoulders, too.
I don't know if that really helps much.
Travis Rassat
Vector Cycle Works Noblesville, IN
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