Thomas Gerlach wrote:
Pat0 wrote:
Jesse Thomas is also having another baby per his twitter account.
Yep but he has one. I don't, I think maybe a second one is as challenging. I'm not really sure though either so maybe Rappstar can comment as he has WAY more perspective on this than me. I just think there is something about the first once. It is almost like a complete lifestyle change I would have to imagine.
I have no idea what it is like to have two kids (we went 1->3), so my perspective hear will be limited... But almost everyone I know says that 1->2 is a MUCH bigger change from a family dynamic standpoint than 0->1. 0->1 is a massive change, but way more for the mother. Like, when we had one, Jill's life change ENTIRELY. But my life - especially from a training perspective - was largely unchanged. Now certainly if Jesse's wife Lauren had a 9-5, that might be different. But she doesn't. And based off what I know, Jesse's parents (or maybe it's Lauren's parents... or maybe both) live in town, so I would guess that Jude probably introduced close to zero UNWANTED disruption into Jesse's life.
Given that the Flomases have family close by, I am sure they will manage it fine, but still, it will PROBABLY be a bigger change for Jesse than 0->1 just as it will probably be a smaller change for Lauren.
But everyone's circumstances are different. The jump from 1->3 was especially challenging for Jill and I because of 1) twins and 2) we had to buy a house to accommodate the jump from 1->3 so it was 1->3 AND a mortgage. So that was a huge change for us because it was two really big changes.
With that said, I certainly could have done a better job managing it than I did. I think I let it stress me more than it needed to. Jesse is way more low key than I am, and he's facing less disruption, so I wouldn't think that another kid would be any sort of factor in his racing.
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