Changpao wrote:
mathematics wrote:
Just a note in general to the thread - If the FOP AG men are the problem, then shouldn't we be hearing equal amounts if not more complaints from AG men swimmers and other FOP AG men? Just by sheer numbers there are more FOP AG men than WPro, so there should be more complaints from them, all else being equal. Maybe this is because what most men feel is acceptable racing aggression is beyond what most women feel is acceptable.
It's also possible that the aggressive FOP AG men act worse towards women. I'd say that is a more likely explanation than the notion women are more likely to voice their complaints, which is basically what you are saying.
And as a FOP AG man, I'll go ahead and register my complaint. In just about every race I've done, there has been a handful of guys whose hyper-competitive behavior on the bike is either dangerous or hostile. Sometimes it's blatant drafting or cutting in, other times it's barking at someone they perceive to be in their way. My impression is that most people around me are trying to do the right thing, but there's a small subset that are jerks. I don't recall a woman ever being a part of that subset.
Same - the amount of aggressive douchebag men, I have encountered over the years is crazy. I used to be able to hold my own as a runner and cyclist, and still was routinely aggravated by packs of aggro dudes drafting, cutting me off, being rude, you name it.
I have had words with more than one rider after a group ride in which they decided to yell at the pack, or ride dangerously - but the attitude is never contrite.
So, yeah - some AG FOP men have the same experience.
As for all the "not all men" whiners who feel so defensive, why don't we focus on the actual assholes that make the sport unpleasant rather than the semantics - typical male fragile egos.