Tri bike??? you're just looking for a beatdown aren't you?
If you are fit, you can single it, as long as you can get some 30 or bigger tires in the frame. CX bike is probably the best option if you are equipment challenged.
We (HED) just got our first prototype gravel bike done. Gravel and cross bikes are pretty similar, but you are starting to see some companies (Salsa is one) come out with gravel specific bikes. Comfort should not be underestimated for a 100 or 200 mile gravel race.
for general info, start at
http://www.gravelgrindernews.com/ There is a gravel running movement starting up too - same ethos: you're on your own, it is rural and epic. Almanzo had a series of footraces last year. Google: wilder footraces.
Andy Tetmeyer (I work at HED)