plifter242 wrote:
Quick question on being a "III."
I know about a half dozen 3rd's including my brother and they all hate being the 3rd aand pretty much exclude it whenever possibly. Now on the other hand I know a few "IV" and they all love it and include it in everything even the dumbest things, this includes my nephew.
Did you like being the "III?"
I like that it's a tie to my pops and grandfather, I dislike that it's caused me some unnecessary red tape and sorting out documents to get 'III' recognized on government paperwork. I also kinda dislike the pressure--real or imagined--to the 'tradition' of carrying on the name to a future son, I honestly don't want a IV (and I really dislike the middle name, which is the main reason for not wanting to pass it down another generation) but I think being a 'III' adds a little bit of that pressure.
Also, there's the issue of multiple people in the same family with the same name, so while my dad has always been Ray I've been stuck with Raymond among family members, and I much prefer Ray. As I said in my first post it's a minor gripe and every name comes with their own drawbacks but if I had a choice I'd probably not be a 'III'. Though i dodged some bullets--i.e. not being named after my maternal grandfather (James Brown...would've been awkward as a pasty white Irish kid).