My wife & I have decided to start a new thing -- taking our kids out for a Valentines date, she with our son, me with our daughter, likely something low key like lunch & dessert & a trip to the indoor tropical botanical garden.
It got me to thinking that we shouldn't make this a Valentine only thing but each of us have 1 on 1 outings with each kid more regularly, maybe once/month with each of us doing something with each kid. Nothing big, just a low key outing. The more commitments I divest myself from, the more I realize that I value the time with the kids...well, maybe except for the household messes & meltdowns inherent to young kids.
Have any of you made something like this a regular practice or did your parents? What have been the best and most memorable things you've done? Anything that's worked best to make something like this happen regularly or anything that's made it a challenge to keep up?
It got me to thinking that we shouldn't make this a Valentine only thing but each of us have 1 on 1 outings with each kid more regularly, maybe once/month with each of us doing something with each kid. Nothing big, just a low key outing. The more commitments I divest myself from, the more I realize that I value the time with the kids...well, maybe except for the household messes & meltdowns inherent to young kids.
Have any of you made something like this a regular practice or did your parents? What have been the best and most memorable things you've done? Anything that's worked best to make something like this happen regularly or anything that's made it a challenge to keep up?