Here's the scoop - last week a "friend" of mine..(well..not really friend, I know her from my Master's group and she swims a couple of lanes over) sends out an email to say that she is going to go cycling in Cuba for a week and while there will be hooking up with a local tri group who is trying to get started. Obviously due to the economic conditions in Cuba, they don't have alot of gear or access to gear so she put out a request for old tri gear to be donated.
I have been racing for so long that I have a ton of stuff so I pulled out a big box full and got it together for her. One of the things I decided to donate was a full bike. It's an aluminum Concorde with Ultegra parts, several years old but it is road ready except for pedals.
She came over to pick it up and the first words out of her mouth were "Wow this has Ultegra - I only have 105's on my bike - I'm going to switch this stuff over and put it on my bike"...I totally just stood there like a dufus because I didn't know what to say. I kinda just muttered something like..well..ummm..if you want to, but I was hoping that the bike would go to someone in Cuba that could really use it.
Here's my point - I totally think that she took the better parts - why wouldn't she, especially after mentioning so blatantly. The whole point of my dontation was to help someone who couldn't get this stuff on their own, not to GIVE it to my fully employed "friend". I have been so steamed about it but not sure if I should say something now - like demand she give me money for the groupo or not. Is it worth anything anyway? I don't care if she's pissed at me but maybe I'm being petty over something that doesn't really matter.
I have asked a few non-tri people and they say "well, if the bike was just sitting there collecting dust, then who cares?" but, in my opinion, that's just a wierd thing to do on her part.
Anyone have any thoughts? Thanks.
I have been racing for so long that I have a ton of stuff so I pulled out a big box full and got it together for her. One of the things I decided to donate was a full bike. It's an aluminum Concorde with Ultegra parts, several years old but it is road ready except for pedals.
She came over to pick it up and the first words out of her mouth were "Wow this has Ultegra - I only have 105's on my bike - I'm going to switch this stuff over and put it on my bike"...I totally just stood there like a dufus because I didn't know what to say. I kinda just muttered something like..well..ummm..if you want to, but I was hoping that the bike would go to someone in Cuba that could really use it.
Here's my point - I totally think that she took the better parts - why wouldn't she, especially after mentioning so blatantly. The whole point of my dontation was to help someone who couldn't get this stuff on their own, not to GIVE it to my fully employed "friend". I have been so steamed about it but not sure if I should say something now - like demand she give me money for the groupo or not. Is it worth anything anyway? I don't care if she's pissed at me but maybe I'm being petty over something that doesn't really matter.
I have asked a few non-tri people and they say "well, if the bike was just sitting there collecting dust, then who cares?" but, in my opinion, that's just a wierd thing to do on her part.
Anyone have any thoughts? Thanks.